Calgary Child Psychologists and Counselling: Empowering Children
At our Calgary Psychologist Clinic, we understand that children and adolescents face unique challenges as they navigate the complexities of growing up. Our dedicated team of therapists specializes in helping children and their families overcome emotional, behavioral, and developmental challenges, providing them with the support and guidance they need to thrive.
A Client-Centered Approach to Therapy
We believe in a client-centered approach to therapy that is collaborative, evidence-based, and focused on building a positive therapeutic relationship. Our therapists work closely with children, adolescents, and their families to create a safe and supportive environment where they can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly and honestly. Through compassionate guidance and practical tools and strategies, we empower children and their families to make positive changes and build resilience.
Our Calgary Psychologists That Work With Children
Dr. Raheleh Tarani
Clinical Psychologist
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Specialized Therapeutic Approaches
Our psychologists have specialized training in a variety of therapeutic approaches, including play therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), and attachment-focused therapy. These evidence-based modalities are tailored to meet the unique needs of children and adolescents, helping them develop coping skills, manage emotions, and build healthy relationships. Whether your child is struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, or behavioral problems, our therapists are here to provide them with the support and guidance they need to thrive.
Supporting Positive Change and Growth
At Best Choice Counselling & Assessments, our mission is to empower children and their families to overcome challenges, build resilience, and thrive. We understand that every child is unique, and we tailor our services to meet their individual needs and goals. Whether your child needs support in managing difficult emotions, navigating social situations, or developing self-confidence, our therapists are here to help them reach their full potential.
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Ready to invest in your child’s well-being and happiness? We’re here to help. Contact us today to schedule your free consultation and take the first step towards supporting positive change and growth for your child and your family. At Best Choice Counselling & Assessments, we’re committed to helping children and their families thrive, one session at a time.
When Should Your Child See a Child Psychologist? Expert Signs to Know
CDC data shows that about 5.8 million children between ages 3-17 deal with anxiety, and 2.7 million struggle with depression. These numbers reveal why many families now seek help from child psychologists.
Child psychologists help young patients with mental, emotional, social, and behavioral health conditions. They treat ADHD, a condition affecting roughly 6 million children. You’ll find them working in schools, hospitals, and clinics. They use specialized methods like cognitive behavioral therapy, art therapy, and play therapy to support their young patients.
This piece helps parents spot warning signs that suggest their child needs professional help. It shows how to recognize concerning behaviors and find the right mental health support for their children.
Understanding When Professional Help is Necessary
Parents often wonder if their child’s behavior needs professional help. The ability to spot differences between normal developmental challenges and worrying behaviors is vital to decide about getting help from a child psychologist.
Differentiating normal vs concerning behaviors
Children go through emotional and behavioral changes naturally as they grow. All the same, some signs need attention, especially when they get in the way of daily life. Research shows that children diagnosed with anxiety disorders tend to experience more stressful life events in the last few months compared to non-anxious children [1].
Key warning signs that indicate the need for professional help:
Marked decline in school performance [2]
Persistent disobedience lasting over 6 months [2]
Severe anxiety shown by regular school refusal [2]
Frequent unexplainable physical complaints [2]
Impact of major life changes
Major life changes can substantially affect a child’s mental health. Studies indicate that moving schools can be as traumatic as having a parent hospitalized for a serious medical illness [1]. Children who face multiple stressful life events show much lower health-related quality of life scores (71.8) compared to those without such experiences (80.4) [3].
Duration and intensity of symptoms
Symptom duration and intensity are vital factors that determine the need for professional help. Behaviors become worrying when they happen daily, stretch over long periods, or disrupt the child’s or family’s life [4]. Research suggests that getting help early can prevent many distressing effects of mental disorders [4].
Common Warning Signs That Indicate Your Child Needs Professional Help
Parents and teachers need to watch children’s behavior carefully in different settings. Research shows that about five percent of children and adolescents have trouble managing their emotions [5].
Changes in mood and emotional regulation
Children with emotional challenges often react strongly in ways that don’t match the situation. You might notice them crying uncontrollably or damaging property [6]. These dysregulated moods can create problems with siblings at home and affect relationships with teachers and classmates at school [6].
Academic performance changes
Poor academic performance can reveal underlying mental health issues. Research shows that mental health problems during early education can predict academic struggles later [7]. Watch for these warning signs:
Grades dropping noticeably
Problems finishing homework
Poor focus during lessons
Missing school often
Behavior patterns at home and school
Children’s behavior can be quite different at home versus school. Research shows that some children behave perfectly at school but struggle at home, especially those with autism, OCD, anxiety, or ADHD [8]. Many children try so hard to keep it together at school that they experience emotional breakdowns once they get home [8].
Different environments and stressors cause these behavioral differences. A qualified child psychologist can help understand these patterns and create the right support plan.
Critical Situations That Require Immediate Intervention
Parents and caregivers just need professional help from a child psychologist in specific situations. Recognizing these warning signs is a vital step to protect a child’s well-being and safety.
Signs of self-harm or suicidal thoughts
Recent studies show that approximately 57% of teen females and 29% of teen males experience persistent sad, hopeless feelings [9]. The numbers become more worrying – 30% of teen females and 14% of teen males report having serious thoughts about ending their lives [9]. These warning signs require immediate attention:
Giving away prized possessions
Expressing feelings of hopelessness
Showing sudden calmness after depression
Making statements about death or suicide
Engaging in self-injury behaviors
Trauma and abuse situations
Traumatic events often leave lasting impacts on children’s daily lives. These experiences can lead to increased health-risk behaviors and long-term health problems [10]. Early intervention is significant because trauma survivors may struggle with relationships and keeping jobs later in life [10].
Severe behavioral issues
Some behavioral issues naturally occur during development, but certain patterns signal the need for professional help immediately. Children with severe behavioral disorders typically show persistent aggression, property destruction, or self-injury [11]. While these behaviors don’t deal very well with standard approaches, specialized treatment programs can help manage them effectively and prevent future complications.
Age-Specific Signs to Watch For
Children and teens show mental health challenges differently. Research reveals specific patterns of behavioral and emotional concerns at each developmental stage.
Early childhood red flags (ages 3-7)
Young children often express mental health issues through their behavior. Data shows that 10% of males and 5% of females ages 3-7 have diagnosed behavior disorders [12]. Parents should watch for children who struggle with transitions. Extended tantrums that last beyond 5-10 minutes raise concerns. Separation anxiety that affects daily routines needs attention.
School-age indicators (ages 8-12)
Children between 8-12 years face their own set of challenges. Studies reveal that 9.4% of children this age deal with anxiety [13]. These children might show:
Sudden drops in grades
Loss of interest in favorite activities
Regular physical complaints doctors can’t explain
Teen warning signals (ages 13-17)
Teen years bring more complex mental health issues. Recent data paints a concerning picture for teens aged 13-17:
17% deal with depression symptoms [12]
40% feel sad most of the time [12]
20% think seriously about suicide [12]
These age-specific signs help child psychologists create effective treatment plans. Data proves early detection makes a difference. Studies show 53% of children improve their condition after getting professional help [12].
What Does a Child Psychologist Do During Treatment
A child psychologist creates a treatment plan that addresses each young client’s unique needs. The process combines multiple elements that support the child’s mental health experience.
Original evaluation process
Parent interviews mark the beginning of evaluation. Psychologists learn about the child’s developmental history and current concerns [14]. This first meeting helps set treatment goals and determines therapy duration. Treatment can take 3 hours for focused evaluations or extend to 12 hours for detailed assessments [15].
Types of therapeutic approaches used
Child psychologists use evidence-based treatments tailored to individual needs:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This method improves moods, anxiety, and behavior by scrutinizing thought patterns [16]
Play Therapy: Children express feelings through toys, games, and creative activities [16]
Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT): The focus lies on strengthening parent-child relationships through up-to-the-minute coaching [16]
Collaboration with parents and schools
Treatment success depends on mutually beneficial alliances between therapists, parents, and educational institutions. Research shows children with involved parents develop better coping skills and mental health outcomes [4]. School collaboration gives a full picture of the child’s behavior in different environments. This knowledge helps therapists create intervention strategies that work [17].
Child psychologists keep open communication lines with parents and teachers. They share progress updates and suggest interventions for home and school implementation [4].
How to Find the Best Child Psychologist Near Me
Parents need to think about credentials and experience carefully when looking for a qualified child psychologist. These professionals must have a good deal of experience working with children and their families and be licensed by the College of Alberta Psychologists.
Key qualifications to look for
A qualified child psychologist needs specialized training in child psychology with active state licensure. Many professionals go through post-doctoral training to gain specific specializations [18]. Parents should check credentials through state licensure boards. The core team should dedicate at least 50% of their practice to working with children [19].
Questions to ask potential providers
Parents should prepare these specific questions before meeting potential providers:
What’s your track record with treating children who have similar concerns?
How do you get parents involved in the treatment process?
Which therapeutic approaches do you use?
How do you keep track of progress? [20]
Insurance and practical considerations
Most insurance plans cover mental health services, though benefits can vary by a lot [21]. Parents should take these steps:
Check if providers are in-network
Learn about copayments and deductibles
Ask about payment options when insurance coverage is limited [21]
Employers are a great way to get help finding mental health counselors. School systems often keep lists of trusted local providers [3]. Family doctors can also connect parents with reliable child psychologists in their area.
Overcoming Common Barriers to Seeking Help
Parents face multiple roadblocks when they try to get mental health support for their children. Research shows most children with mental health conditions never get the clinical care they need because of stigma [1].
Addressing stigma and misconceptions
Many parents fear others will blame them for their child’s mental health challenges. Studies show that psychiatric disorders like anxiety and depression stem from biological causes, not parenting styles [1]. Mental health conditions are medical issues, just as with diabetes or other physical ailments.
Managing treatment costs
Money creates a big hurdle for accessing child psychology services. Families spent 31% more on child mental health services between 2017 and 2021, with yearly costs reaching $4,361 on average [22]. These costs are steep, but families have several options:
Sliding scale fees based on family income
Payment plans offered by providers
Community centers providing reduced-cost services
Government programs for eligible families
Building trust in the process
A child’s treatment success depends on trust between the family and therapist. Children show better mental health outcomes when their parents take part in their treatment [23]. Trust grows through:
Regular updates about progress
Showing up for scheduled sessions
Honest conversations about concerns and expectations
Research proves that getting help early creates better outcomes, which makes dealing with these obstacles right away a vital priority [24].
Conclusion
Children’s mental health support plays a crucial role today. Millions of young people face challenges like anxiety, depression, and behavioral issues. Parents who spot warning signs early and get professional help give their kids the best chance to thrive. Research shows that early help makes a real difference in children’s mental well-being.
Getting professional help might seem challenging due to stigma and cost. However, families can find many resources and payment options. Child psychologists use specialized techniques and proven treatments that match each child’s needs. They work with parents and schools to provide complete care.
Getting professional help is a positive step to support your child’s mental health. Parents should reach out to qualified professionals when they notice ongoing behavioral changes, school problems, or emotional difficulties. The right evaluation and treatment help children develop coping skills. These skills create a strong foundation for lifelong mental wellness.
FAQs
Q1. What are some signs that indicate a child might need to see a psychologist? Common signs include persistent changes in mood or behavior, significant decline in academic performance, excessive anxiety or fearfulness, frequent temper tantrums, and difficulty coping with major life changes. If these issues persist and interfere with daily functioning, it may be time to consult a child psychologist.
Q2. At what age can children start seeing a psychologist? There is no specific age limit for children to start therapy. Even toddlers can benefit from psychological support. The earlier a child receives help for their mental health concerns, the better the outcomes tend to be. Child psychologists use age-appropriate techniques to work with children of all ages.
Q3. How does a child psychologist typically approach treatment? Child psychologists begin with a comprehensive evaluation, which includes interviews with parents and sometimes the child. They then use various evidence-based treatments such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Play Therapy, or Parent-Child Interaction Therapy, depending on the child’s needs. Treatment often involves collaboration with parents and schools for a holistic approach.
Q4. How can parents overcome barriers to seeking help for their child’s mental health? To overcome barriers, parents can educate themselves about mental health to address stigma and misconceptions. For financial concerns, explore options like sliding scale fees, payment plans, or community resources. Building trust in the process is crucial – maintain open communication with the therapist and consistently attend scheduled sessions. Remember, seeking help is a positive step towards supporting your child’s mental well-being.
References
[1] – https://childmind.org/article/7-myths-about-child-mental-health/
[2] – https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/When-To-Seek-Help-For-Your-Child-024.aspx
[3] – https://health.clevelandclinic.org/child-therapist-types-how-to-choose
[4] – https://www.crossrivertherapy.com/autism/the-importance-of-collaboration-between-therapists-parents-and-schools
[5] – https://compasshealthcenter.net/specialties/dysregulation-in-children/
[6] – https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Resource_Centers/Emotional_Dysregulation/Home.aspx
[7] – https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9976597/
[8] – https://childmind.org/article/kids-different-home-school/
[9] – https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/ask-the-pediatrician/Pages/what-should-i-do-if-my-child-is-thinking-about-suicide.aspx
[10] – https://www.nctsn.org/what-is-child-trauma/about-child-trauma
[11] – https://www.kennedykrieger.org/patient-care/conditions/severe-behavior-disorders
[12] – https://www.cdc.gov/children-mental-health/data-research/index.html
[13] – https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK587174/
[14] – https://cpsttexas.com/blog/what-to-expect-from-a-comprehensive-psychological-evaluation-for-your-child/
[15] – https://trianglechildpsychology.com/testing-process/
[16] – https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Psychotherapies-For-Children-And-Adolescents-086.aspx
[17] – https://www.catchpsychotherapy.org/allposts/2020/11/30/collaborative-therapy-is-essential-to-childrens-mental-health
[18] – https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/22666-child-psychologist
[19] – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/growing-friendships/201512/5-questions-to-ask-a-child-psychologist
[20] – https://www.littleotterhealth.com/blog/questions-to-ask-a-child-psychologist
[21] – https://www.apa.org/topics/managed-care-insurance/parity-guide
[22] – https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2024-03-11/medical-costs-for-kids-mental-health-jumped-31-in-5-years
[23] – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-hypnosis/202211/helping-children-develop-trust
[24] – https://healthsciences.arizona.edu/news/blog/busting-myths-understanding-childrens-mental-health
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